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Date: 02 Apr 2002
Time: 18:20:30
Remote Name: 10.10.17.215
these people would probably be the ones that need some help and don't know what they want. what these people need is to have their friends there for them and not to have to deal with anyone else's shit but theirs. they will push away people that make their lives worse and when they ask for help it means that they want help and if they're not confiding in their friends then there's probably just a lot of stuff going on and they don't know where to start. that and they're probably afraid of what people are going to say about them. people who don't know what they want probably don't know who they can trust or who they want to trust. just let it be and if they wanna talk then they will. they may only open up a little bit but that's better than nothing right? if you wanna help them then what you can do is just make sure that as much stuff as possible is going right in their lives. if they're having problems with friends that you can help with then help with that but don't push them or they will push you away even more if they don't want your help. everything will work out in the end don't worry.